Thursday, May 17, 2012

Minor OCD?


Its no surprise that Maya takes to her daddy’s side of the family in looks. Blue eyes, blond hair…but daddy’s OCD is a little surprise. I should have seen it coming a million miles away but always thought “oh, she’s just being a girly girl”. Its crystal clear now. 

Here’s a few things that Maya says or does:
-I put a plate down for her with her lunch or dinner, a small bowl for dipping her ranch, her water cup. She didn’t like the way it was arranged and says “no mommy you can’t put that there!” and then proceeds to move her plate to a different position (as if it were crooked), moved her water and moved her dipping cup. To a more suitable arrangement.

-She is NOT happy if there is a piece of paper, coloring page, what have you (paper style) that is bent. She can’t put up with it “oh no mommy, you bent it…what am I going to do now?”

-On her powerchair, we often have to move the joystick panel to the side in order to get up under a table (like at a restaurant). When we put it back in place and it is not at a perfect 180 degrees, she totally freaks out.

-She cuts all her stickers from a sticker page so that they are a bunch of stickers and puts them in a bowl (like you get at the dr office as a “prize”) and then INSISTS on putting them back in the bowl as such: biggest on the bottom with the top being the smallest stickers, and all stickers have to be faced up. She is currently obsessed with the sticker bowl. Has to go everywhere with us – bed, car, toilet. Everywhere.

-The middle one. Just like when daddy has to have the middle cinnamon roll because it is the gooiest, Maya also insists on having the middle of everything!

-Saving the best for last. At Whataburger for lunch and she was eating a grilled cheese sandwich. I break everything into pieces. She picks up this one piece a couple of times and then puts it down saying that she isn’t going to eat that one. Its apparent why to me and Charlie – it is by far the cheesiest. Totally saving the best for last. So, being the meanie that I am, told her that I was going to have a bite and tried to pick up that one piece. “NO MOMMY” who can’t have THAT one!”. Then, when she finally did decide to eat it, she lost control and it almost fell on the floor. Whoa. What a catastrophe that would have been. But in the end no different from her dad. Saving the best for last doesn’t always have the best outcome guys. 

Please tell me its just the age and she will grow out of it!!

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