Thursday, December 29, 2011

Maya is 4 years old!



Happy 4th Birthday, our sweet and precious Maya!

For your big day, we went to your favorite restaurant Pappasitos where you go to eat your favorite chicken enchiladas with verde sauce, and yes, we even let you have queso. You did NOT, however, enjoy the sombrero and the thought of even looking at that dessert in front of you made you "angry".
In the evening, we celebrated with the whole family and lots of friends at your favorite place - ITZ. We've hit that place for every one of your birthdays so far. You enjoyed going on the Monkey ride, the train, and the roller coaster.





You loved your Disney princess 3-D cake, but you didn't even taste a little bite!

You loved your presents (of course!)


You thanked everyone for coming...


Madi had a sleepover with you and you practiced putting makeup on your new dolls! Mommy and Daddy also surprised you with your most wished for present since Christmas (yea, that whole 4 days!) - A Dora Kitchen!

Great times!!!! We love you, Maya. Happy 4th!!

All the pictures are here

Wednesday, December 28, 2011

Maya's 3rd year in review

I think every year I say it was the best year, but 3 was definitely my favorite so far. We are looking forward to another adventurous year with our big girl!

Maya, we had such an exciting year with you. Some highlights - Being the best big sister by sharing your playtime, toys, movies and food with Kaden, 1st trip to Disney World, playing with your very own iPad, experimenting with preschool, horse riding/therapy, getting potty trained, getting into make up and doing nails, taking pictures on mommy's cameras, dancing, cooking with mommy, going on rhino rides at the deer lease, the biggest year yet we've seen from the drama queen. You started talking SO MUCH. And singing all day long. To every song in the whole wide world (I am repeating what I hear her saying). Your favorite color is RED.

You mastered driving your first powerchair in about 6 months. We didn't get the lift for our car until you had the chair for about 4-5 months, so once you were going out and about to restaurants, ball parks, and shopping places, you just got better and better at maneauvering everywhere. You can get through some amazing spaces, you learned how to go up and down, you even gave some rides out (I think Hailey was your first passenger at a Sam's Club!). You love your powerchair so much and feel so independent with it! You don't get upset when we don't bring it in the house because you like using your manual chair in the there, but everytime we go out, you are so excited to be able drive on your own. I bet you also love hearing us tell you to "come back here, Maya!" or "Maya don't go too far". Every time you went down a ramp, everyone had to stop and chant for you, "Go, Maya, Go! Go, Maya, Go!" Every.Time. Looking back on it, I don't know why we didn't get it for you earlier. I think your ability to "run around" really opened up a big part of your personality. We are so happy that you are so happy in your powerchair.

Maya, you had the busiest schedule of any 3 yr-old I ever knew. Mondays you would go to PT, Tuesday mornings to horse riding, then back for OT at home and then home school. Wednesdays you would go to preschool, Thursdays you would go to PT in the morning, then home for OT and then home school. Fridays you would go to preschool. The only thing that changed when you turned 4 is the preschool thing, but you will be right back next August! Somewhere in all that, you would fit in some swimming here in there, doing about 3 hours of standing time per day, and taking naps.

Your favorite activities and toys when you were 3 were: painting, cutting things with your cool scissors, getting your nails done with mommy, doing everyone's nails at home, putting on gobs and gobs of lip gloss (doing your makeup next to me in the bathroom!), watching movies like Tangled, Little Mermaid and Cindereilla. You loved books (finally) this year and asked to be read every night. Your favorite books were Cinderella and Little Mermaid. You love driving a play Escalade car around the neighborhood and scored your very own for your 4th birthday. Playing teacup/coffee and kitchen, the doctor set, cash registers, castles and houses, playdoh, all princesses and Barbie things, and you very much enjoyed playing with all your old baby toys that we brought out for Kaden! You got your first baseball bat and loved playing baseball outside in your stander. We got a swing set in our backyard after seeing how much you love to swing. But, you also hate bugs SO much that you hardly wanted to go in our backyard after 5 pm!

Your eating habits got a little bit better. I don't recall having to make quesadillas three times a week! You still love Spinach. The only other green vegetables you will eat are broccoli (with cheese) and okra (fried). You would eat lasagna and taco salad (with all the lettuce, too!). You tried more and more vegetables and different meats, vbut you were still very much against eating any kind of fruit (except Gerber Pears), ice cream, or candy. You would tell everyone that asked you to eat any of these "banned" foods of yours that you did not like them, but thanked them for offering.

During your 3rd year of life, you proved just how brave you are. We would go to the doctor, therapist, get new bracing, etc and you don't cry anymore! Now, you still cry alot when there is a needle involved, but you are getting SO much better at it. In fact, you cry right before, but during the finger pokes and bloodtests, you are such a big girl and hardly ever cry anymore! And there were so many more ways that you have proved your bravity. We are so proud of you, Maya, for many reasons, but for putting up with all the "stuff" we have to do with you is amazing.

Monday, December 5, 2011

Guess who took 2 steps today!

I have waited a long time to be able to say this about one of my children. Kaden took TWO independent steps today!! Kaden was playing with his new riding toy and watching some DVD. He was holding on to the lazyboy and wanted to go to his toy. He took two steps to the handle of the toy. Then he stood there a bit and then fell down. He didn't do it again the rest of the day, but now I know what it feels like to watch it happen. I am SO happy I was able to be there when he did it. Go Kaden!!


As a sidenote. With all the happiness and wanting to celebrate, there is always that part of Charlie and I that want to watch what we say around Maya. I didn't jump up and down and get all excited in front of her because you don't want her to think I'm not proud of her. We knew this time would be hard for her  - to watch her brother and younger cousins start walking and running and climbing on things. She was the youngest on this side of the fam until last year. She's been "trying" to crawl lately and she will put her hands on the floor and move her head in a go-forward motion and then tell me she is going to crawl one day. It just breaks my heart. All I tell her is that we hope she does one day and that we will do everything we can to help her try to get strong enough. I don't remember if I posted about some of her conversations, but she prays about being able to walk. She asks me, "You know Mommy, I pray to Jesus that I am going to walk one day, you know that Mommy?" Another heartbreaking conversation that we seem to have almost two to three times a week now. I just have to tell her that we will continue to pray that she will get really strong and be able to one day, BUT that if she can't its okay and we all love her so much and how cool her powerchair is and all sorts of other wonderful ways she can be happy. So we find a happy medium to keeping the faith/hope but also letting her now that if it doesn't happen, we will take care of her and keep her happy just the same. Its that fine line between religion and science and she is just too young to get it. Heck, I am still struggling myself!


I know that everyone reading this must think, wow, that was a happy start and a depressing end to a blog post. Well, just a taste of what our days have been like lately. Its been a tough six months watching Kaden move around and have Maya asking questions. Its emotionally draining. The excitement over him and the sadness over her. But on a lighter note, Christmas is coming up soon and we have some very special toys planned. One may be delivered this weekend and configured just for Maya to be able to use!! I am expecting some big smiles from that blue-eyed sweetie!

Saturday, December 3, 2011

Kaden's 1st Birthday Party - Little Gym


Kaden's 1st birthday party was a big hit! We celebrated at the Little Gym where they do the entire party for you! We knew that Kaden would have such a great time there as well as his 3 closest cousins in age. We didn't realize that the entire group would end up having such a ball. View all the pictures here.


He thoroughly enjoyed his cake.


Opening presents with cousin Addi to assist!


 Having a ball at his party! 








 The whole gang had fun!


 The decor





Friday, December 2, 2011

Look Mom!

So Kaden is only 1 week into being a 1 year old and he just has toshow us doesnt he? In the past 7 days, he has started to climb and climb and climb! He now knows how to climb into Mayas wheelchair. And he has to show us up by standing on the seat. And now he even wants to stand on the back of it which would make him bust his you know what. Then he has figured out that if he moves his toys and toy boxes that he can climb on the sofa. That one is fun. The gross one is the liking to play with the toilet water. Ewwwwwww! And finally the real shocker this week. I was at Gaylas house talking to her about whatever that day and went to see Kaden. He was gone from the living room! I thought I had heard some noises. I looked in the bathroom (see toilet above). No. Ran up the stairs. Little stinker made it all the way up the stair case and was sitting by their pool table. So scary because they have a second stair case and stairs all over the place upstairs. He had the biggest smile on his face when I saw him.  UPDATE: He has now done this to me two more times in our own house. I've run around frantically looking for him. Its my OWN fault that I leave the gate to the stairs open. I have to be more careful! I even put a sign on the gate to close it (since we always have so many visitors in the house) and I cannot obey my own sign!! He is SO PROUD of himself when he does this. Such an accomplishment.